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The person across the table

Six years in HR, eight years as a coach. Minh Khôi’s story, and how he works with clients.

MinhKhôi

  • Listen.
  • Straight talk.

I spent six years in HR, listening to a lot of people explain why they wanted to quit. Now I sit on the other side: helping them find a reason to move forward.

Minh Khôi in glasses, smiling, writing in a notebook (sample photo)

Life coach · HCMC

Minh Khôi

Walking alongside you while you choose your own way.

Why I became a coach

In my fourth year in HR I sat in an exit interview with the best engineer on the floor. He said: “I don’t hate the company. I just don’t know where I’m going.” That sentence stayed with me for years.

I started studying coaching and took my first clients in the evenings, after work. In 2018 I left HR to coach full time, in Ho Chi Minh City and online.

Who I work with

Most of my clients are professionals aged 25 to 45: people who want a new career, managers who have just been promoted, small business owners carrying too much. I coach in Vietnamese and in English, so some clients are overseas Vietnamese or foreigners living in Vietnam.

Minh Khôi is a fictional character; the story, the years and the number of clients are sample content.

A session with me

You bring what’s been on your mind. I bring questions, a silence long enough to think in, and one small thing to do before next time.

Four principles

  • Confidential

    What you say stays in the session. No recordings, nothing passed on, not even to whoever referred you.

  • No judgement

    There are no silly questions and no goal too small.

  • You decide

    I ask and give straight feedback, but the choice is always yours.

  • Measured in action

    Every session ends with one concrete step, and the next one starts with it.

One coaching session

  1. Before

    You send a few lines: how the week went, what you want to talk about. I read them first, so we don’t lose the first ten minutes.

  2. During · 60 minutes

    A video call, or a quiet café. You do most of the talking; I ask, sum up, and point out where you’re going in circles.

  3. After

    The same day you get a summary and one thing to do. Midweek I check in once by message.

What coaching is, and isn’t

  • Coaching is

    • A structured conversation aimed at something you want to do.
    • For people whose mental health is okay and who want to move forward.
    • You set the goal; the coach keeps the pace and asks the hard questions.
  • Coaching isn’t

    • Not psychotherapy: no diagnosis, no treatment.
    • If you are depressed, have lasting anxiety or thoughts of harming yourself, please see a doctor or a mental health professional first. I can help you find the right place.
    • Not financial or legal advice.

In clients’ words

  • He never gave me an answer. But after every session I knew exactly what to do the next day.

    Thanh Tâm · Chief accountant · Change Course
  • It was the first time I said it out loud. Once I heard it, it was far less frightening.

    Đức Huy · Software engineer · Confidence
  • Five people from five different fields, and every week I recognised myself in someone else’s story.

    Mai Phương · Bakery owner · Rebalance

Sample content · fictional names

Twenty minutes, no strings attached

One call to see whether we’re a good fit. If we aren’t, I’ll say so and suggest someone else.